You are not alone..
As relationship coaches and counselors, we’ve heard this same story from countless women.
They show up at their friend's weddings, smiling in the pictures, clapping during the vows..
But later, they feel overlooked and sometimes disappointed.
They ask themselves.. "When will it be my turn?"
Not because they’re jealous…
But because deep down, they’re wondering, “When will someone find me?
They love God. They’re growing.
But love still feels so far away.
Over the years, we’ve seen so many amazing women lose confidence while waiting for love and maybe you’ve felt that, too.
That’s why we wrote FOUND.
We wanted to create something real, faith-filled, and practical to help you get in position mentally, emotionally, and spiritually to be found by the right man at the right time.
FOUND is a simple, honest, and hope filled guide to help you prepare for love without chasing, pretending, or looking desperate.
If you’re ready to get in position with confidence, clarity, and peace download your copy of FOUND today.
I’ve been praying… but what am I actually supposed to do while I wait?”
“How do I position myself to be found by the right man when dating today feels so off and nothing like what I imagined?”
“How do I stay hopeful, when I’m tired of waiting?”
“Can I really be found by the right man without chasing or compromising?”
“Is it wrong to want marriage, even when I’m doing everything ‘right’ and still waiting?”
“How do I trust God when nothing seems to be happening?”
You’re not alone and you’re not crazy for asking.
These are real, honest questions that so many Christian women are carrying quietly.
That’s exactly why we wrote FOUND. We want to answer these questions and help you to start preparing for the kind of relationship you’ve been praying for.
Download your copy of FOUND now and take the first step toward peace, clarity, and real confidence in your season of preparation.
✅The Profile Adjustment Checklist: 4 things you might have posted on social media account that could be pushing the right man away (page 20)
✅The Convo Strategy: 5 simple ways to extend conversations with men beyond “hello” (page 37)
✅Show Up & Be Found: Several safe event types you can look for in your city where good men hang out. Skip the bar, and the club (you know what you’ll find there) (page 26)
✅The Rejection Reframe: “what if he doesn’t like me?” How to reposition your thinking so that it doesn’t matter. (Page 35)
and
Much more…
This new book won’t be around forever especially at this introductory price (it’s less than lunch)
There is so much in this practical guide, but even if you take away just 1 thing, it could change your life.
We want you to walk through this season with confidence, insight and Godly Wisdom.
This is your time.
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So many amazing women are praying for a godly relationship... but also feel stuck, unsure of what to do next.
HERE'S THE TRUTH
You don’t have to chase, beg, or lower your standards to be seen.
FOUND is your guide to getting in position mentally, emotionally, and spiritually to be found by the right man at the right time.
Picture this...
-You walk in peace and confidence, knowing you're aligned with God’s timing
-You understand how to carry yourself without feeling desperate
-You know what to say yes to… and what to walk away from
-You feel ready for a relationship and you actually enjoy the journey
If you’re ready to stop guessing and start preparing, this book is for you.
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If you wait, you might find yourself in the same spot still hoping, still unsure, still wondering what’s missing.
You’ve waited long enough.
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We're husband and wife, pastors, coaches, and partners in life and ministry. We’ve been married for 12 years and have spent over a decade counseling and coaching singles and couples on how to build healthy, God-centered relationships.
We are the co-founders of Black Christian Love in which we provide relationship coaching to singles and married couples through.
Rotoya is the founder of WIFE PREP U a coaching program that has helped hundreds of Christian women prepare for godly marriages without compromising their faith or identity. And together, we've walked alongside men and women through every stage of the relationship journey from “I just met someone” to “Will you marry us?”
We wrote FOUND because we’ve seen too many amazing women lose confidence while waiting for love.
We’ve witnessed the confusion, frustration, and discouragement that can come in the waiting season and we wanted to offer something real, faith-filled, and practical to help you get in position mentally, emotionally, and spiritually to be found by the right man at the right time.
Here’s what we know for sure: You don’t have to chase, settle, or compromise.
Of course, we can’t guarantee that reading this book will get you a husband but we can guarantee that you’ll walk away more confident, more clear, and better positioned for the kind of relationship you desire.
FOUND is about preparation, not pressure and we are here to help you grow, not rush..
Let’s walk this journey together.
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“I thought I knew everything I should have known...I had done the research, watched all the sermons, and taken notes. But the wisdom I received through Rotoya’s teaching and mentorship went so much deeper. It gave me real clarity, helped me grow in confidence, and showed me things I didn’t even realize I needed to work on. Now, I finally feel positioned with purpose, not just hope. This is the kind of guidance every single woman needs.”
Gloria
“As I started applying what I was learning especially about communication something shifted. It was like a light came on. Not long after, my boyfriend proposed… and now we’re married! What I appreciated most was how safe and practical the teaching was. It wasn’t just theory it gave me tools for both marriage and life. If you’re serious about preparing for love the right way, this guidance is life-changing.”
Tarsa
“My experience with Bruce and Rotoya was nothing short of amazing. I’ve learned so much and find myself constantly thinking and talking about how much more confident and informed I feel when it comes to dating and relationships. I’m still on the journey, but now I’m walking it with direction.
What I received wasn’t just information it was wisdom and tools that I know will help me become a purposeful, faith-filled wife in the future. I’m no longer guessing what it takes to prepare. I’m living it out step by step."
Lindsay
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